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In Sunday’s message I made these statements:
“Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and one that, when defined and pursued in accordance with His design, is ratified by Him through the establishing a sacred spiritual union. It is first and foremost a commitment to one another. A sound, healthy, and God-honoring marriage MUST be first and foremost, based on a permanent, unconditional commitment to your spouse.
If a marriage is first and foremost based on attraction, or romance, or sex, or the companionship of things you share in common, then you can expect the relationship to either crumble or be unsatisfying at some point. Attractions can change. Romance can wax cold. Sex can be seldom or even impossible at some point. Common interests are always evolving. And the reality is, it is not hard over time to meet someone whom you will think might provide any, or all, of those things better than your spouse might be providing them at any point in time (a scary thought, but we are fools if we don’t recognize it happens).
Are attraction, romance, sex and common interests bad? No! It is still true that any happy and healthy marriage is going to include many (or all) of those things (and many other aspects of what it means to be “one flesh”). And it is also true that happy and healthy marriages involve two people who are committed to establishing, pursuing, and cultivating all of those things to the extent possible.
But they MUST BE COMMITTED to pursuing those things. The COMMITMENT comes first. The other things are the byproducts of faithfully pursuing those commitments. Get the cart before the horse, and you’re going to have a hard time getting anywhere in your married life.”
Below is a video describing a marriage that demonstrates these realities better than I could ever try to express them myself. If you can watch this without crying, you need to watch it again, and think more deeply about it.
Last week’s sermon on Matthew 17:14-21, entitled “How to Exercise Faith,” raised some good questions from a couple of folks. I thought I would try to answer them here. I have answered some other questions about healing before, and you can read those by clicking this link to the previous article.
The first question relates to what is often called the “Word of Faith” movement. This describes a segment of professing Christians who believe that “faith” operates through our “words” by speaking into reality whatever we have enough faith for. The question says, “Your message seems to strengthen the argument made by the Word of Faith movement, that if someone has enough faith, then they can be healed by God…what can be said to those seeking healing, but don’t receive it and yet believe their faith is true enough to experience God’s healing?”
I was very careful in my message to point out that the nature of “faith” as the term is used in the Bible is believing and trusting in “(1) the nature of God, (2) the power of God, and (3) the promises of God.” The simple answer to this question is that there is NEVER a promise in Scripture that God will heal you.
It is in the NATURE of God to heal–that is why He accomplished eternal healing at the cross (Isaiah 53:5 – the healing in the atonement is from sin, not sickness). This is also why He sometimes physically heals in the present by His grace. As well, it is obviously and certainly within the POWER of God to heal. He can heal anyone, at any time, of anything, if He so desires. That being said, however, there is NOT a PROMISE that God WILL heal anyone, at any time, of anything. Our “believing” that He will (or must!) is misplaced confidence in something God has not promised. That is why I pointed out, “faith is not a feeling of confidence” about something you desire or pray for. Faith is trusting in a promise given by a good and powerful God, but still unseen in reality. Because we have no promise of healing, we cannot “claim that promise” by faith, and speak it into reality by our faith or prayers. Sadly, that is what the “Word of Faith” adherents claim to believe and practice, and it has been the cause of great disappointment and spiritual instability in many.
A second question I received was this: “How do you pray in faith for things you aren’t sure are God’s will, or about which you do not have a specific promise?”
Another great question. Perhaps an illustration would help. If I asked you, “How does a child ask his mommy for a apple to eat, when he does not know if she has any apples in the house, or if his mommy wants to give him one?” I think your advice would be obvious. He just asks her. He voices his desire, hopefully with humility and contentment in his heart and voice, and trusts that she will answer in whatever way is generous and/or good for him. God’s heart is turned toward the good desires of his children, just as a mother would be inclined to give her child an apple when he asks. We pray the same way, because we know God’s character to be generous (“how will He not also with Him freely give us all things” [Romans 8:32]). If He withholds our requests, then we can be confident that it is good for us. But we can humbly appeal to His love and generous nature, and voice our desires with contentment, knowing that His heart is stirred by our requests, and His desires will be carried out fully. He delights in our asking for good things, He delights in putting His goodness on display by granting them, and He basks in the worship and gratitude that issues forth from these expressions of His kindness toward us. So keep asking, that you might keep receiving, worshipping and thanking Him!
The third question is a little tougher. “How can one know if the measure of their faith is sufficient or ‘little’ in the Lord’s eye?”
There are no clear guidelines laid out in Scripture for this one. Therefore, we are left to compare our prayers, attitudes, actions, and motivations of the heart with the examples of Scripture. Are we being distracted by circumstances like Peter (Matthew 14:28-31)? Are we persisting in prayer, and not giving up, like the widow (Luke 18) and importunate neighbor (Luke 11:8)? Are we doubting the Lord’s power to protect us from the storm like the disciples (Matthew 8:26)? Are we doubting that God can provide (Matthew 6:25-34). Because we don’t have a particular word or promise from God about our specific circumstances, this kind of comparison and honest assessment is the best we can do–this is how the Word “judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart” (Hebrews 4:12). If you do not find your prayers, attitudes, actions or motivations lacking, then you should continue to pray with a contented heart, believing that God is good and knows best what is needed. Every answer of “no” or “wait” from God is not caused by “little faith.” He may have other lessons for you to learn, like steadfastness, contentment, or joy in the midst of your trials. Don’t miss those lessons because you’re just assuming your faith is small.
I hope that helps. Feel free to comment and interact. I’ll be around.
David states in this psalm that part of his personal practice of worship was lifting up his hands in the name of the Lord. The past century has seen a resurgence of that practice in Christian churches. I do not consider the practice a matter of right or wrong, good or bad. It is ultimately a personal matter of the heart, and not something that those who lead worship should encourage or discourage. No one could know for certain the motive, heart attitude, or thoughts of another as they engage in worship with this physical expression. At the same time, as something that goes expressed and noticed as part of public worship, we need to think carefully about it so that it does not become a vain an empty practice.
Here are some observations I have made over the years, and some good questions to ask as you evaluate your own thinking and practice in this area.
First, notice that there are many Old Testament examples (not commands) of raising hands in worship or prayer (Psalm 28:2, 88:9, 119:48, 134:2, 141:2, 143:6; Ezra 9:5; Nehemiah 8:6; 2 Chronicles 6:12-13). There are, however, many other outward expressions of worship in the Old Testament too. We need to recognize that Christians noticeably do not imitate or practice every form of physical expression of worship that we see in the Old Testament (nor should we). Generally we do not see Christians publicly lie prostrate in repentant sorrow, tearing their clothes, putting on dustcloth and ashes, or burning incense. One might argue that perhaps the church would be served by engaging in these practices as well. Common sense, however, makes it clear that those outward expressions of worship were part of the religious culture of Judaism, and are not necessarily prescriptive of what we should practice today. Perhaps it wouldn’t be wrong, but it would probably not be understood or appreciated in our cultural setting (much like foot washing, which served a helpful purpose in the dusty Middle Eastern sandal culture, but loses its significance today).
Second, we should point out that there are some physical expressions of worship mandated in the New Testament. Both baptism and communion are outward, physical expressions of worship. As well, lifting up hands as part of corporate prayer is also commanded in the New Testament (1 Timothy 2:8). That recognition means we can’t see hand-raising as merely a cultural practice. It did carry a practical and symbolic significance right into the New Testament church age.
Third, the contexts in which you see raising of hands as part of prayer and worship indicate that it served a number of possible purposes. (1) There is a connection with holiness, both acknowledgement and praise for God’s holiness (Psa 28:2, 63:4, 134:2), and a personal desire for God to produce holiness in the life of the worshipper (Psa 141:1-2). Unholy, unrepentant people, would never have lifted up their hands, exposing the sins they were “clutching onto,” to a holy God. (2) Lifting hands is also seen as a way to invite God’s blessing and presence as part of worship (Psa 143:6). We now have the indwelling Spirit as a constant and personal presence with us. This does not make the invitation and request less necessary, any more than a child who is in the presence of their mommy would not reach up and ask to be held sometimes. (3) As well, lifting of hands in worship is seen as an expression of thanks and dependence upon God and His Word (Psa 88:9, 119:48, 28:1-2; Neh 8:6; Lam 3:41).
I appreciate how Sam Storms combines these ideas in his own explanation of the practice. He notes first that if you don’t know WHY you are doing it, then it violates the principle that you must worship with understanding. He says:
By all means, we must worship with understanding. We must think rightly of God and love him with our heart and soul and mind (see Mt. 22:37). But we are not, for that reason, any less physical beings…why do I worship with hands raised? Because like one who surrenders to a higher authority, I yield to God’s will and ways and submit to his guidance and power and purpose in my life. It is my way of saying, “God, I am yours to do with as you please.” Because like one who expresses utter vulnerability, I say to the Lord: “I have nothing to hide. I come to you open handed, concealing nothing. My life is yours to search and sanctify. I’m holding nothing back. My heart, soul, spirit, body and will are an open book to you.” Because like one who needs help, I confess my utter dependency on God for everything. I cry out: “O God, I entrust my life to you. If you don’t take hold and uplift me, I will surely sink into the abyss of sin and death. I rely on your strength alone. Preserve me. Sustain me. Deliver me.” Because like one who happily and expectantly receives a gift from another, I declare to the Lord: “Father, I gratefully embrace all you want to give. I’m a spiritual beggar. I have nothing to offer other than my need of all that you are for me in Jesus. So glorify yourself by satisfying me wholly with you alone.” Because like one who aspires to direct attention away from self to the Savior, I say: “O God, yours is the glory; yours is the power; yours is the majesty alone!” Because as the beloved of God, I say tenderly and intimately to the Lover of my soul: “Abba, hold me. Protect me. Reveal your heart to me. I am yours! You are mine! Draw near and enable me to know and feel the affection in your heart for this one sinful soul.”
Is this your heart’s attitude as you raise your hands in worship? There are still other questions that can be asked.
I often wonder if everyone who raises their hands during worship has carefully considered what the expression is intended to express from their heart? If you cannot answer definitively what you are expressing through the action, then you must ask what your motive was for doing it in the first place. Can an action without an understood purpose truly be called worship? Again, I’m not judging everyone’s motive who does practice it, but simply reminding you that YOU must examine your own heart if you do. It is possible that hand-raising for many people has simply become a part of their “Christian culture” and is practiced simply because people around them are doing it. It could easily become just like the Old Testament sacrifices that were offered by cold-hearted worshippers who were just “going through the motions” of Judaism. Their sacrifices were not always an expression of surrender, dependence, thanksgiving, repentance and affection toward God. And so He says, “Burnt offering and sin offering You have not required [or desired]” (Psa 40:6; see also 1 Sam 15:22, Isa 1:11, Hos 6:6 and Matt 9:13). Likewise, hands raised outwardly without the proper heart attitude inwardly is just like those vain sacrifices — it means nothing to God, and in fact, He does not desire it. True worship is a matter of the heart primarily, not the hands. We should never raise our hands if we have no understanding of why we do it.
As a challenging follow-up to that principle, I often ask people whether or not the heart attitude that compels them to raise their hands in public worship causes them to raise their hands in private worship as well. Raising your hands to be seen by others only would be wrong. The motive of appearing spiritual to others is atrocious to God (that would be hypocrisy, which the Lord hates). If your heart is filled with brokenness, thanksgiving, dependence and surrender in public, to the point that you feel compelled to raise your hands as a physical expression of worship publicly, it seems that this expression would find its way into your private worship as well. As I ask that question, I do realize that there is a dynamic that exists in the corporate worship service (due to prayer, music, and the elements of corporate worship) that does not exist in the same way in our private worship. That dynamic is partially responsible for energizing the worship we enjoy in church (let’s face it; the music and singing is better at church when we’re together, than it is for most of us in our “prayer closet,” right?). If worship is a matter of the heart, however, then to some extent those same heart attitudes, and any physical expression of them (like hand-raising), will likely find its way into your private worship. If it never does, I believe it would be wise to ask if you raise your hands “in order to be seen by men.”
Another point to consider involves the contribution or hindrance to others that any physical expression of worship makes as part of corporate worship. There are discrete and calm ways to raise your hands in prayer and song, and there is also a manner of doing so that can be distracting and even unnerving to those around you. If your heart attitude is one that is motivated by affection and worship of the Savior, then you certainly should not want your gestures, or hand-raising, to be “jerky,” “showy,” or overly noticeable. These areas of personal practice and liberty must never be exercised in a way that does not give loving consideration to those around you (Rom 14:14-21; see below).
By asking such pointed and challenging questions, I know I run the risk of being thought of as a “worship curmudgeon.” But I will repeat what I said at the beginning: “I do not consider the practice a matter of right or wrong, good or bad. It is ultimately a personal matter of the heart, and not something that those who lead worship should encourage or discourage. No one could know for certain the motive, heart attitude, or thoughts of another as they engage in worship with this physical expression.”
I know for some, it is difficult to avoid associating this practice of hand-raising in worship with the excesses of many churches where hand-raising is a more consistent part of the church culture. It is often combined with a kind of worship that is driven by emotionalism more than a conscious meditation on the truth. As well, it is often practiced alongside an unbiblical manner of speaking in tongues, or with blatantly unbiblical practices (like being “slain in the spirit,” “holy laughter,” and even worse and excessive practices). Raising of hands in worship, however, has become much more mainstream in recent decades, and is no longer associated primarily with the Pentecostal or Charismatic churches where the practice found its resurgence. Because it is much more widespread, and much more understood, then it used to be, I believe it is important for everyone to have a gracious and generous spirit toward one another. Those who DO practice hand-raising should not consider themselves spiritual because they do so (or judge those who do not). And, those who do NOT practice it, must be gracious, understanding and believe that it is an honest expression of worship from the heart of those who do.
As a final encouragement, I will take a little liberty with Romans 14, and apply the principles of Christian Liberty and having a judgmental spirit to the matter of hand raising (the context involves “days” and “foods” but it reads just perfectly by inserting the idea of hand-raising in worship).
14:1 Now receive the one who is weak in the faith, and do not have disputes over differing opinions.14:2 One person believes in hand-raising, but the other doesn’t raise his hands. 14:3 The one who raises his hands must not despise the one who does not, and the one who abstains must not judge the one who raises his hands, for God has accepted him. 14:4 Who are you to pass judgment on another’s servant? Before his own master he stands or falls. And he will stand, for the Lordis able to make him stand. 14:5 One person regards hand-raising holier than not raising, and another regards it differently. Each must be fully convinced in his own mind. 14:6 The one who raises his hands does it for the Lord. Theone who does, does it for the Lord because he gives thanks to God, and the one who abstains from hand-raising abstains for the Lord, and he gives thanks to God. 14:7 For none of us lives for himself and none dies for himself. 14:8 If we live, we live for the Lord; if we die, we die for the Lord. Therefore, whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s. 14:9 For this reason Christ died and returned to life, so that he may be the Lord of both the dead and the living.
14:10 But you who do not raise your hands – why do you judge your brother or sister?And you who do raise your hands – why do you despise your brother or sister?For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God. 14:11 For it is written, “As I live, says the Lord, every knee will bow to me, and every tongue will give praise to God.”14:12 Therefore, each of us will give an account of himself to God. 14:13 Therefore we must not pass judgment on one another, but rather determine never to place an obstacle or a trap before a brother or sister.14:14 I know and am convinced in the Lord Jesus that there is nothing wrong in itself; still, it is wrong to the one who considers it wrong. 14:15 For if your brother or sister is distressed because of your hand-raising,you are no longer walking in love.Do not destroy [or distract] by your hand-raising someone for whom Christ died. 14:16 Therefore do not let what you consider goodbe spoken of as evil. 14:17 For the kingdom of God does not consist of hand-raising, but righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit. 14:18 For the one who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and approved by people.
14:19 So then, let us pursue what makes for peace and for building up one another. 14:20 Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of hand-raising [or any other outward expression of worship]. For although all things are acceptable,it is wrong to cause anyone to stumble by how you worship. 14:21 It is good not to raise hands, or to do anything that causes your brother to stumble.14:22 The faithyou have, keep to yourself before God. Blessed is the one who does not judge himself by what he approves. 14:23 But the man who doubts [what his heart attitude is] is condemned if he raises his hands, because he does not do so from faith, and whatever is not from faith is sin.